I Should Be Happy but I Feel Like Shit

An escape plan for Asians who did everything right.

You've already googled whether you're depressed and you don't tick enough boxes. You've ruled out ingratitude, because you know exactly how lucky you are and that only makes it worse. You've ruled out needing a break, because the feeling goes on holiday with you and is sitting on your chest by the time you land.

By the last page you'll know which rules you've been living by, where you picked each one up, and which of them were never yours to begin with. You'll have words for the thing you've never been able to explain to the people closest to you. And you'll have made one decision you've been circling for years.

It takes an evening to read. It costs you the story you've been telling yourself about why you have to keep going like this.

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This book makes me want to tear apart everything I’ve ever believed about myself and just try to be audacious!

Cherie S. (Singapore)

PEEK INSIDE

What's in the Book



THE SHOULDS

The Chapters

  • I Should Be Happy: Why your awesome life makes you feel shitty inside.
  • I Should Put My Family First: Why you feel like a heartless bastard for whenever you put your needs first.
  • I Should Make This Work: Why your life doesn’t feel right, even though you do all the right things.
  • I Should Stick To Something Safe: Why things feel too risky even though you’re smart, hardworking and capable.
  • I Should Have A Plan: Why you feel like you need to “find your passion” before you make a move.

BONUSES

Digital Bonuses

Already got your copy? Access your extended, guided exercises here. These are some of the most potent exercises I run with my clients, who tend to come out of them with two or three "holy shit" insights about themselves.

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“I cried on the plane reading the chapter about needing plans. It’s like you read my f*cking mind.”

Phillip T. (Hong Kong)

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If you want to go beyond the book

Reading a book won't change your life, what you do in the week after reading one could. If you'd like to put the insights from the book into action, talk to me and I’ll personally help make it happen.