I Should Be Happy but I Feel Like Shit
An escape plan for Asians who did everything right.
I wrote this book after coaching over a hundred Asians who did everything right and still felt like shit. Their lives looked completely different on paper, but the problem underneath was always the same: they knew what they kind of life they might want if they left, but they didn’t think they were allowed to want it. If that's you, consider this your escape plan.
By the last page you'll have met your Great Wall of Shoulds, figured out which of its rules were never yours to begin with, and made the one decision you've been circling for years. No quitting your job or disappointing your parents required.
BONUSES
Digital Bonuses
Already got your copy? Access your extended, guided exercises here. These are some of the most potent exercises I run with my clients, who tend to come out of them with two or three "holy shit" insights about themselves.
“This book makes me want to tear apart everything I’ve ever believed about myself and just try to be audacious!”
Cherie S. (Singapore)
PEEK INSIDE
What's in the Book
THE SHOULDS
The Chapters
- I Should Be Happy: Why your awesome life makes you feel shitty inside.
- I Should Put My Family First: Why you feel like a heartless bastard for whenever you put your needs first.
- I Should Make This Work: Why your life doesn’t feel right, even though you do all the right things.
- I Should Stick To Something Safe: Why things feel too risky even though you’re smart, hardworking and capable.
- I Should Have A Plan: Why you feel like you need to “find your passion” before you make a move.
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“I cried on the plane reading the chapter about needing plans. It’s like you read my f*cking mind.”
Phillip T. (Hong Kong)
WORK WITH ME
If you want to go beyond the book
Reading a book won't change your life, what you do in the week after reading one could. If you'd like to put the insights from the book into action, talk to me and I’ll personally help make it happen.